Shenandoah my daughter-abusive husband 4 16 yrs-drinker & druger–now 16yr old son jumping on the same band wagon as dad-abusive–been sending in prayer requests good 14yrs years to no avail–where is God—

Shenandoah my daughter-abusive husband 4 16 yrs-drinker & druger–now 16yr old son jumping on the same band wagon as dad–son also getting physically assaultive  abusive–been sending in prayer requests good 14yrs   years to no avail–where is God–